Mandatory Ministry Mistakes

There is no abstinence programor list of rules that are going to free you from yourself because they apply knowledge instead of heartfelt compassion. Christians can be the most judgmental of psychology because they want to pray emotions away or blame it on the devil instead. My question is,"what happens when you perform andtow the …

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Therapy for the sinful parts

Psychologically feeding the needs of readers through the written word. I have crossed state lines and country borders to study family and human behavior in hopes of healing my own complex trauma. Without fear of using my own stories and experiences to highlight the topics that most choose to deny, my journey of healing has …

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The Covering

The idea to create a quick read from the parent to a child evolved after three years of working with teens through IFS Therapy, who were quieted through control, religion or other persuasions from a role model. In hopes that a light would turn-on inside the adult, I longed to bring illumination to teaching and …

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Find the ONE who formed you to follow

I always say, “God don’t make trash” which means he doesn’t give the birth defects, the autism, the gay gene, the vehement temper, the addiction, anxiety disorders, depression or disease we suffer with, because we are knit together perfectly in our mothers womb. And every single one of us shot out of a woman's womb.  …

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Fitness model exercises wholeness steps

To walk out a life of wholeness, one would first have to know what one wants out of life.  Some people don't want to know why they suffer because they are afraid of uncovering something big that would stir up even more chaos.  I have never been such a person, usually I use chaos as …

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confessions from an unwanted stripper

In thinking about myself and believing I was un-wanted, I remember expecting everyone to eventually leave.  It didn't take long to learn that I could shield myself from abandonment by being the first to walk away.  Sometimes I would sabotage a connection to see if the outcome was predicted.  For a decade I had sex …

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Emotions aren’t demons

Lord help those who shame others for being depressed, anxiety struck or sick because that says more about them than the ones they are addressing. And how does anyone else know more about his neighbor than what his neighbor has lived through? Let me re-phrase, "How does anyone else know more about me than I …

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“Those exposed to acute and chronic stress by their childhood conditioning, lost their ability to engage in the necessary fight or flight behavior, and were impaired as a result. It left them open as targets for illness. The fundamental problem is not the external stress, such as the life events where tragedy arose, but an …

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Spirit of government

Friends, Biden and Trump are friends, their kids have gone to schools that our kids can't go to, they are guaranteed jobs that we will never be in the running for and they are part of the plan to cause dissension. They have been given legal right from spiritual assignments to deceive the public.  The …

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Starving from disorders

Chronic pain has been an issue in my life on such a profound level that it was exasperated by an eating disorder, or did the eating disorder invite the chronic pain? It is the chicken or the egg cleche of which came first, but after working with others who have an aversion to bodily acceptance, …

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Religion is relinquished

The reason why many question God’s goodness when they wonder where he was when they chanted scripture like a mantra, has to do with relationship. Satan quoted scripture, how else will knowledge puff up? Big deal, plenty of worldly people are successful for studying what other people don’t take the time to. You are called …

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Liberty on Father’s Day

I grew up on 1810 Liberty Rd and received the scripture Matt 18:10 about three years ago when I was reconciling my heart to my Father in heaven and my earthly one. These truths can break down damage done in childhood but only when inner healing takes place. Much of my own journey has utilized …

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