Through friends eyes

The easiest way to not waste your time on the dating scene is to seek the love found in your closest friends, and apply that to a life partner. It will cut the time wasted on potential men who lack empathy, expression and accountability, in half. This year, I discovered girl friends who helped me …

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History of hate shouldn’t repeat itself

It's important to not remove history because the same dysfunction will repeat itself.  It is also equally as important to not use a platform to spew hate in the name of love, just because you can, especially if you are a teacher or preacher.  There are far more people who are qualified to speak truth …

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Fitness model exercises wholeness steps

To walk out a life of wholeness, one would first have to know what one wants out of life.  Some people don't want to know why they suffer because they are afraid of uncovering something big that would stir up even more chaos.  I have never been such a person, usually I use chaos as …

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Should you follow your heart?

Serpents have a way of suggesting that your instincts should be questioned.  Adam and Eve basically doubted themselves and God as soon as the slithering tactics of enticement lured them into following their hearts toward desire.  Directions were given and all they had to do was stick with the plan so nobody would get their …

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Suggested shampoo side effects

Everything is suddenly, "warning, warning, warning" us before we make a natural decision these days.  Do I not have a brain cell?  But in reality, a mere suggestion about shampoo can swoop in with doubt because of the negative energy it's fear-based control brings with it.  Taking every thought captive and leading your soul into …

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As popular as my voice

It's happening more and more all the time now, the encounters that are undeniably supernatural, where the expectation no longer exceeds reality.  I remember not having a voice and being a wall flower smacked on white sheet rock that depicted the color my face shown, when asked a question.  All those years of feeling silenced …

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To stop the tanning tracks

There are moments we have that stop us in our tracks, tell us to slow down and soak up the intrigue of belief in something bigger than us.  This past week, such a moment occurred in my life through the interaction with a business that I was about to give up on.  I'm pretty loyal and …

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Find the ONE who formed you to follow

I always say, “God don’t make trash” which means he doesn’t give the birth defects, the autism, the gay gene, the vehement temper, the addiction, anxiety disorders, depression or disease we suffer with, because we are knit together perfectly in our mothers womb. And every single one of us shot out of a woman's womb.  …

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Don’t date the shrimp, stay single

Why do we compromise ourselves when dating?  Does it really have to take 100 treks around the mountain for some of us to have a light bulb come on?  I have made numerous attempts to slow down the dating process in hopes to protect my heart but all it did was give the dude more …

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