Man and Woman created

When the topic of relationship is brought up, most people can admit that nothing is as it seems until time has been invested, and for many that can be too late. Too late to spare one's feelings, get back time or see how we blew past red flags in the beginning. It wasn't until I …

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Dating a man with Mommy issues.

I always circle back to dating topics because love makes the world go round, unless of course a guy has mommy issues.  This is where you put your big girl pants on and use the data given in the beginning stages to not invest in a relationship where you have to dumb yourself down for …

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Squid aren’t 50 shades of grey

I'm really shocked that some of my neighboring therapists believe that sadistic and masochistic behavior is up to the consent of a person who would have a sound mind.  We are in the business of healing childhood memories where the dis-connection to intimacy, safety, communication and identity began, so why would we think the movie, …

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Should you follow your heart?

Serpents have a way of suggesting that your instincts should be questioned.  Adam and Eve basically doubted themselves and God as soon as the slithering tactics of enticement lured them into following their hearts toward desire.  Directions were given and all they had to do was stick with the plan so nobody would get their …

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Through friends eyes

The easiest way to not waste your time on the dating scene is to seek the love found in your closest friends, and apply that to a life partner. It will cut the time wasted on potential men who lack empathy, expression and accountability, in half. This year, I discovered girl friends who helped me …

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To stop the tanning tracks

There are moments we have that stop us in our tracks, tell us to slow down and soak up the intrigue of belief in something bigger than us.  This past week, such a moment occurred in my life through the interaction with a business that I was about to give up on.  I'm pretty loyal and …

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House Rules

I'm not throwing shade, I'm just trying to shed some light on the darkness. If teenagers were understood by their parents, there wouldn't be a problem with that stage of development, ever. But most rents can't communicate with their teens if the subject of faith is on the line."House Rules" generally demand that church going, …

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