Fail spectatularly

Fall on your face and fail spectacularly because when you fail you learn, when you fail you live. I so desperately want to keep this past chapter of my life open for the possibilities that I held out for, for the hope that all of my investment would pay me back in dividends and deposit …

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Dating a dissociative

Daddy always knows what I need.  I believed I needed to have a partner move with me to the South for close proximity to observe a lifestyle that could have easily been hidden through distance.  I had trust issues and knew the emotional distance I was able to concoct in order to survive deep interaction …

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Vulgarity in verbalizations

I have never been a fan of vulgar language and have walked away from many females taking part in such verbalizations because it hurts my soul. After all, we aren't born talking trash or even knowing what half the crude stuff being said even means until someone teaches us. How do we learn how to …

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Trust when a guy seeks sex.

Ladies, please trust a guy who says he only wants to have a sexual relationship. At least he is being honest about something even though it may persuade you to try to win his heart through sex. Don't fall for that either. Compromising your convictions to lay down with someone for the sake of being …

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Three criteria for a mate

Three criteria come up for me when I consider who NOT to date. I'm getting better at sniffing out who isn't compatible with me based on the suffering I have already lived through. Let's face it none of us are getting any younger so with each day that passes by, it is important to store …

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Finally conscious of loving ego

"The promptings, guilts, fixations, transgressions, woundings, cruelties, and rejections of childhood forced us to manuever through the world inside the automobile of a false self.  Even though we, as children, initially stepped into the vehicle for protection and mobility, we gradually forgot our true essence which took refuge there.  We lost touch with our souls …

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Connection begins with somebody who identifies with you.

Why is it that so many of us are looking for a mate to complete us, fix us, enhance our lives or define us?  I have to admit, I was needy for a time and settled for a warm body beside me because I thought I could bring out the best in him.  But, he …

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